Maybe you have been therefore frustrated during a quarrel that you simply «lost it» and dumped plenty of past history in your partner? Then you’ve gunnysacked if you have.
Then you overreact to a minor conflict or think you have reached the very last straw in your marriage. Gunnysacking causes it to be burdensome for both of you to solve ongoing dilemmas. The overreaction frequently benefits in you dumping every one of the old hurts in your partner at a time, which not merely helps make the real problem being discussed get lost when you look at the fray, but it addittionally can trigger defensiveness in your better half. […]