A round-the-clock project: Text sessions that last for hours, depriving you of sleep; flowers sent to work, with notes extolling your virtues; surprise visits, trips, gifts, all with the same message: “You deserve nothing less! In fact, they’ll make putting you on a pedestal”
If you worry that you could be during the early stage of the love bombing assault, image that you will be at railroad crossing by having a locomotive barreling along the songs. The danger sign there is certainly real right right right here also: Stop. Look. Listen.
Stop: Slow things down. Have talk and say: “I love everything about yourself, but let’s slow things straight down a little, it is moving too fast, and I’m a bit afraid of that. ”
Look: Actions speak louder than terms. If his terms and actions aren’t in sync, that’s a large warning sign.
Listen: Listen very very carefully as to what he states, and don’t forget to challenge the assertions. It’s early, but up to now, so great. If he claims: “We is likely to be perfect together, ” reply: “Well”
Also, keep in mind that love bombers hate to be challenged, and a reply that is snarky all of your reviews above is another caution.
Data Recovery From Love Bombing
Having said that, if you’re scanning this far too late, and have to recover from love bombing, follow these actions:
Get No Contact
No contact means exactly that, none, nada, zero, never ever. […]